Seeing “refusing marry someone”
in your dream

He will marry an exceptionally beautiful woman.

He will come in contact or marry an evil and sinful woman.

• Seeing a Torah:  (1) A reference to those who abide by that Holy Book. 
(2) Reunion with the absent.  (3) Recovery of what is lost.  (4) Wife will give birth to a male child. 
(5) Might mix with people who will spoil the dreamer’s religious beliefs. 
(6) Will see the Muslims  Holy Prophet.  (7) Wisdom, knowledge, and good conduct. 
(8) The breaching of an agreement.

• A bachelor seeing the Torah:
• (1) Will marry a girl or woman from another ethnic group.
• (2) Will travel extensively, because the Torah comprises several asfar 
(scriptures or holy writings, plural of safar, which in Arabic is a homonym for travel).
• (3) Might marry an emancipated woman or one without a legal guardian.

• A man whose wife is pregnant holding the Torah in his hand: Will be blessed with a female child, because Torah in Arabic is a feminine word.

He will marry a woman with a charming personality and a sweet, singing voice.

• Seeing Paradise with one’s eyes: Worries will disappear and the dreamer will obtain whatever he desires.

• Seeing Paradise but refusing to enter it: The dreamer is a benefactor and a hard worker. Such a dream can be had only by the fair, never by the unjust.

• Seeing Paradise but being barred from entering it: The dreamer will not be able to perform hajj 
(pilgrimage), engage in Jihad  (holy war) or expiate for some sin, despite his desire to do so.

• Seeing one of the gates of Paradise being closed or slammed in one’s face: One of the dreamer’s parents will die. If two gates are closed, both parents will pass away. In case all gates are closed, this means that the dreamer’s parents are displeased with him. Conversely, if he enters it from any gate, the dreamer is blessed by his parents.

• Entering Paradise:  (1) The dreamer will be happy and secure on earth and in the Hereafter. 
(2) Desires will be fulfilled after hardships, because the way to Paradise, it is believed, is fraught with dangers and evil things. 
(3) The dreamer is sociable and will mix with great and noble people.  (4) The dreamer is observing religious tenets.

• Wearing a green ruby ring: Wife will give birth to a bright, pious, and knowledgeable boy.

• Receiving a ruby: The dreamer will marry a pretty lady.

• A bachelor wishing to get married dreaming of taking or receiving a ruby: He will marry a beautiful and pious woman in view of the Quranic verses: “In them will be 
(maidens), chaste, restraining their glances, whom no man or jinn before them has touched; then which of them
favours of your Lord will ye deny?—Like unto rubies and coral.”  (“Al-Rahman” [God, the Most Gracious], verses 56–58.)

• Getting from the sea or riverbed heaps of rubies: Plenty of rubies: 
(1) A reference to money.  (2) An additional province for the ruler. 
(3) More learning for the scholar.  (4) Business for the trader.

• Wearing a garland of ruby and coral: The dreamer will derive dignity and power from a beautiful lady.

If a woman sees a crown in her dream. It symbolises her husband. If she is unmarried, she will soon marry a very dignified, respectable and influential man.

If a woman sees herself as mounting an ox it means she will marry a man if she is unmarried. But if she is married her husband will obey her and she will take advantage of his good nature.

If a person sees the sun rising in his house it is a tiding that he willsoon marry if he is a bachelor. Otherwise the kings and rulers will confer great honour upon him.

The rabbit symbolizes a woman. He who seizes it will marry. Dreaming of slaughtering it means a woman who will not last.45 It also refers to a cowardly man.

If the house whose door is being opened is known to him it means he will marry. If not, it means his Dua's will be granted.

If a person sees himself milking and drinking cow milk it is a glad tiding that he will become rich, or if he is rich his wealth will increase; or if he is a slave he will become free and marry his mistress.

(Headdress; Scarf) If a religious Muslim woman sees herself without a head cover or Hijab in a dream, it means that her husband has left her with the intention not to return to her again. If she is not married, it means that she may never marry.

If a persons sees himself as having become abridgegroom and he also recognizes his bride in the dream it is a glad tiding that he will soon marry, or he will wield power or he will become the owner of something of value. But if he did not see his bride nor does he see himself in wedlock with a woman it means that he will either die or be killed or become a martyr.

A man told Imam Ibn Sirin: "I saw that I was betrothed to a black woman who was short in the dream." Ibn Sirin replied: "Go and marry her, for her blackness is her richness, and her size represents the span of her life. For you will shortly inherit her wealth."

If a person sees himself entering an unknown house and climbing the upper protions of the house, it means he will marry some woman who will be a means of prosperity for him.

Urine generally symbolizes spending and wasting money. It could also mean illicit or inappropriate spending.

• Urinating: The dreamer will spend money that will benefit himself.

• Urinating smoothly: Money will flow from the dreamer’s pocket, and his savings will be eroded.

• Containing one’s urine: The dreamer will be angry with his wife.

• Being hard pressed but finding nowhere to urinate: The dreamer is searching for a place to bury his money but is unable to find one.

• Holding back urine or urinating with difficulty: The dreamer is rushing things and taking incorrect initiatives, because continence is like frustration and frustrated persons are unstable and never go back on a decision before they feel the heat.

• Urinating in an unknown place: The dreamer will marry a woman or a slave in that place who will receive his semen and make him part of her family.

• Urinating in a well: The dreamer will spend illegally acquired money.

• Urinating on a commodity: Will incur losses in it.

• A rich person urinating and withholding some of the urine: He will lose some of his wealth.

• A troubled person urinating and retaining some of his urine: He will get limited relief.

• Urinating in drops: A debt will be paid back in instalments.

• Urinating with someone and seeing the urine mixing: Rapprochement or one of the two will marry into the other’s family.

If a person sees a specific number of fish in his dream it suggests that he will come into contact with a woman or he will marry a woman.. But if its number or quantity is unknown it means he will acquire wealth or booty.

A green rainbow signifies safety from drought and famine. A yellow one symbolizes sickness or disease. A red one implies bloodshed. It is said that sometimes, the mere dreaming of a rainbow implies that the observer of the dream will marry soon.

Seeing these in the dream is regarded as better than seeing bars of gold since they (bars of silver) symbolise excellence and good fortune. If a person sees himself as having received a piece of silver with no design on it, it means he will marry a beautiful woman.